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New Year Reflection: 2025!

19/11/2024

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Another year is almost gone… and again, I don’t know how, when, or where it went… so many things happened this year, and so many things didn’t.
​As we are preparing to move into the New Year 2025, let’s do our usual end of year reflection. It is time to sit in silence and ponder… time to dig into our soul looking for answers or making peace with not finding some of those answers.

Here are our 7 journaling prompts to reflect on.
If you are a paper and pen type of person like I am, you can print the images, stick them in your journal and dedicate some time every day during the remaining days of the year to reflect and make some decisions and choices.

Wish you all a blessed, happy, healthy and joyful New Year!
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Despite life's endless challenges, there are always tons of things we are grateful for. God sends us grace and blessings every single day, every single moment. We just need to be awake and aware to receive them. For me, having a grateful heart is in itself the best Divine gift and blessing ever.

Write your list of at least 3 things you are grateful for in 2024. Allow yourself to breathe them in, embody them, and fully feel the gratitude within every cell of your body. God promises us: “If you express gratitude, I shall certainly give you more” (Q. 14: 7)
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​For many of us, thinking about our accomplishments might be challenging. Sometimes when we look at our life, we think we didn't achieve much because we didn't reach any concrete goals yet... This is mainly because we learned to measure our success from a Western mentality standpoint, looking only at material achievements - things that we can see, hear, touch, taste or smell; Things that we can perceive with our five external senses; and worse yet, things that others can see and praise us for. With all the selfies and hypes on social media, it is extremely difficult to even try to fit in… we can’t help but compare and we end up beating ourselves up and torturing ourselves with guilt and feeling worthless.
But, this shouldn’t be the case.
 Sometimes our biggest achievement is in laying the foundation and the groundwork for our next stage in life, our inner growth, our inner heroic journey that only God could see.
When considering your achievements this year, I invite you to first consider your heart, namely its state: Is its mirror well polished reflecting the beauty of your human spirit? Is it closer or further away from its Creator? Is it more loving, forgiving and caring? Is it more balanced? Is it braver, more courageous? Is it wiser and more just?

Take out your journal and start your reflection…

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Ambiguity and chaos have been integral parts of my life for years. 2024 taught me once again to make peace with them and to embrace my fears and worries as signposts rather than decision makers. I can't claim that I got rid of my anxiety for good, but I believe I achieved a good progress and still working on it. I learned to slow down and listen to my heart and let my spirit guide the way.

I've also learned that I have to speak up, to walk the fine line between fear and peace-making.
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I re-learned to connect to God on a much deeper level, talk to Him and embrace silence so I can listen to His answer. I learned to see Him in everything and everyone I encounter. I learned to love Him like I never experienced before.
 
Now, it is your turn. What lessons did you learn in 2024– the hard way?


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My mentor once told me, God is painting the most beautiful canvas of our life, if you keep holding on to the brush and insisting on putting your own colors, you will end up with chaos.
 
Painters know that adding just one wrong color to the mix can turn a beautiful vibrant paint into a muddy mess. I indeed need to let go of the brush… Letting go does not mean giving up. It means keeping the work while surrendering the results. refraining from being attached to any specific outcome… doing the best that I can while trusting the Divine to paint the ultimate piece of art for me.
Letting go of the need to control the outcomes.
Letting go of the need to know the outcomes.
Letting go of the need to know why.

 “Look round our world; behold the chain of love
Combining all below and all above.
See dying vegetables life sustain,
See life dissolving vegetate again:

All forms that perish other forms supply
-by turns we catch the vital breath, and die,
Like bubbles on the sea of matter borne,
They rise, they break, and to that sea return.
Nothing is foreign: parts relate to whole;
One all-extending, all preserving soul.
All served, all serving: nothing stands alone;
The chain holds on, and where it ends, unknown.”
- Alexander Pope (An Essay on Man, 1732)


Now, it is your turn. What do you need to let go of?
 

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The feeling I aiming for in 2025 is “Peace”.
One of the Divine Names in Islam is AsSalam, The Perfectly Peaceful, The Source of All Peace.
Joseph Campbell talks about a stage on the Hero’s journey called: “the Belly of the Whale”. It is like the dark night of the Soul, described by St. John de la Cross. One main characteristic about this stage is  that you do not get to choose when or how you get out of it… you just surrender… totally surrender and once you are ready, you’ll find yourself in the world again totally renewed and rejuvenated, totally transformed and restored – a better and more wholesome version of you… a version that is free from judgement, anger or resentment, a version that is filled with love for the world even if this world still seems unfair and unfriendly, a version that is connected to herself, to God and to the world… a version that is at peace with life ambiguity and paradoxes.

This is how I want to feel in 2025: At Peace... I want to find this Peace in my heart that only strive for love & service, that embodies the love and beauty that God created, that fully trusts God in the dark as well as in the light.

Now, it is your turn, how do you want to feel in 2025?



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When you decide how you want to feel in 2025, it is time to dig deeper. What is your Call for Adventure at this time of your journey?

I realized that I chose the same word back in 2022. At the time, feeling at Peace, for me, meant Persistence, Congruence & Connection.
This time, it is a bit different, the words that came to mind when I chose Peace were: Love, Beauty, Serenity, and Intimate connection with the Divine.
At this stage of my journey, these psychological and spiritual goals are more of a priority than any material achievements. Yet, I also added some career goals and family plans.

What about you? Where are you on your life journey? What is your Call for Adventure? What goals you would like to achieve? Think and craft your list.




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Studies show that mere positive visioning of the desired outcome is not enough to take us there. The “Law of Attraction” does not work if we do not do the work.

I like to divide my habits into 3 categories: Body, Mind & Soul.

Body – What healthy food, exercise, or sleep practices do you need to put in place that will help you reach your goals and desired feeling?

Mind - what mental habits, states, or beliefs do you need to adopt for your specific goals? What daily, weekly or monthly habits do you need to set in place? Ex. studying time, reading habits, silence and reflection time, accountability and tracking habits, reminders, social connection, self-care practices, relationship habits…

Soul– In our daily life, we feed our body and mind, but we forget to feed our soul – The only food for the soul is its connection with its source, with the Divine. How do you do that? Focus on your heart. Our heart is the gateway between this earthly realm and the Unseen – between the body/mind and the Divine spirit within us. What heart-based habits do you need to set in place for this heart to be able to reflect the beauty of your spirit?

Set some time to work on those habits and plans… Let’s make this New Year the best that we can.

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[Art, Stories & Body Whispers®] Tiny Everyday Choices

30/4/2024

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A while back, I met Sara, a beautiful barista in her late 20s cheerfully preparing and serving coffee in my local coffee shop. But, she wasn’t always that cheerful.
Sara shared that she started early in life as a rebellious teenager in a broken household. One bad decision after another and she ended up homeless, living on the streets begging for her food.
One day, she was done. Life wasn’t worth living anymore. She had enough of those dirty smelly clothes; she didn’t even remember when the last time she had a shower; and her hair was all tangled up, greasy, and messy.
Sara headed to the subway and stood on the platform waiting for the train to arrive. She kept staring at the tracks, gathering her courage to jump.
Then, she heard a gentle voice, “Excuse me, madam, you dropped your backpack”. An old lady with a kind serene smile, approached Sara handing her the greasy backpack she nonchalantly dropped as she was moving closer to the edge of the platform.
A word stood out for Sara: “Madam!” - “She called me madam!” Sara told me, “This one word changed my life forever.” Sara silently picked up her backpack, nodded, and moved away from the tracks. This simple word gave Sara the tiny boost of self-worth and hope she needed. It gave her the courage, not to jump, but to try one more time.
She reached into her bag for a relatively cleaner shirt. She went to the washroom, cleaned herself up, and headed to the coffee shop just around the corner. Earlier this morning, Sara had passed by the shop, they had an ad asking for a barista but she brushed it off. Why would they choose me, she thought. But now, maybe they will… just maybe… after all, I am a “madam!” She thought. And, here she is, a cheerful barista by morning and a college student by evening.

But, this story is not about Sara. Today’s story is about this anonymous lady who handed Sara her backpack at the subway station. We’ll never know her name, and she’ll never know ours. She will probably never hear Sara’s story. She will never know that one word, one smile, one simple act of pure love and care she did that day saved a life.

Reflection & Journaling prompts

Our life is not about the big huge decisions - whether or not to buy this house, apply for that a job, move town or marry that person… The most important choices are the tiniest everyday moment-to-moment choices that weave the fabric of our lives. If sometimes, you think your life is meaningless, useless, and aimless - think again! One smile, one word, one kind gesture… are all it takes to make a huge difference in life. Mindful living is a choice. Interacting with life knowing that every single moment matters.

We are living in a difficult time. It seems as if the world has gone mad. People don’t make sense anymore. It is easier to pick up a fight than to slow down and listen to your neighbor.
Margaret Wheatley, in her book, Who Do We Choose To Be? Invites us “to create islands of sanity in the midst of a raging destructive sea.” Wheatley acknowledges that we might not be able to change the world, “but we can change ourselves so that we can be of service to this world,” so we can offer “compassionate presences and trustworthy companions to those suffering in this world.”
Prophet Mohamed taught that if the Day of Resurrection befalls you and you are suddenly witnessing the world ending while holding a seedling in your hand, do plant it. It is never too late and your service is never too little to make a difference.
The Quran teaches about the true servants of the Lord of Mercy who tread the earth gently, and when the foolish improperly address them, they only respond with peace. (Q. 25:63)
وَعِبَادُ الرَّحْمَنِ الَّذِينَ يَمْشُونَ عَلَى الأَرْضِ هَوْنًا وَإِذَا خَاطَبَهُمُ الْجَاهِلُونَ قَالُوا سَلامًا

​What tiny act of service can you add to the world today?
What beauty did you miss on your way to work, to school, to life… today?
What opportunity were you given to empower another human being today?


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Traditional Islamic texts teach that we all walk in life accompanied by three companions: Desire, Anger, and Fantasy.
Desire and Anger, on one hand, are our motivations. They drive us towards or away from people, situations, and experiences.
Fantasy, on the other hand, is our Storyteller. He shapes our perception of the world and weaves a story out of every encounter so that we can make sense of life. With our Fantasy we create our vision of the world, our understanding of how reality works. This understanding, in turn, shapes our values and our choices.

Fantasy is the most valuable yet the most dangerous of the three companions. He is a trickster, an amazing storyteller whose stories are but figments of our imagination. This does not mean that reality is but an illusion or that our trauma, pain, and challenges are not real… They most probably are. It is the story that we build around them that might not be.
Fantasy is this annoying little voice in our head that keeps reminding us of how bad we’ve been, what a failure we are, how harsh is the world, how unfair is our boss or how painful our experiences… He might be there to serve us, to warn us at times. Yet, we should never let him lead the way. We need to stay in charge of our story. If we are awake and aware, our Fantasy will show the way but won’t be leading it.
Mindfulness helps us stay in charge of the stories he tells so we can choose to accept, alter, or reject them. We can always ask him for a better story, a richer narrative.

The kind lady who helped our barista chose to ignore the dirty clothes and the smelly hair that her Fantasy companion most probably weaved into the story. The images and details are the same but the story can change: “a filthy smelly person. She is probably an addict. I need to stay away from her. Her hair must be full of lice.” Or, “a poor homeless person who did not have the good fortune I had in life, let me be kind to her.”
The choice is yours.

Open a new page spread in your journal. Brainstorm a list of 10 phrases that you need/want to cancel from your daily self-talk. Like:
  • I’m not good enough
  • I’ll never make it on my own
  • I’m not that smart
  • Life is so hard
  • If I help her/him/them, they’ll be better than me
  • I have to be rude and harsh so that they respect me more
  • I have to be nice so they will love me more
  • Self-care is a luxury I can’t afford
  • I don’t have time
  • Why does this keep happening to me …

After you finish, pick a color that represents this voice, the voice of your Fantasy. You can use crayons, paint sticks, pens, collage papers…
Draw an image or a representation of your Fantasy companion.
Remember, there is no right or wrong way of doing it. Your art could be realistic or abstract… don’t worry about the drawing skills… don’t worry about coloring inside the lines, perspective, or proportions… just freely capture the feelings you are experiencing.
Take your time and then jot down any additional words that come to mind.

Now, look at your art:
  • What color did you use? What texture? What shapes?
  • How strong, sharp, heavy, or light are the colors, lines, and shapes?
  • How powerful is your Fantasy companion? How is it affecting your life and your daily choices?
  • How aware are you of his presence?
  • Who is in charge?
  • How does your Fantasy help and how does he hinder your good choices?
  • If you want to add yourself to the page, where would you be?

Traditional Wisdom of the Month

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​The Arabic word for choice is Ikhtiyar, which has its root in Khayr. Khayr means goodness. In other words, choice is not considered a choice if it is not rooted in goodness.
This opens a whole other debate about what is considered good.
A simple answer would be, as the Prophet taught, “Consult your heart.”
Deep in our hearts (our souls) we know good from evil. Yet, only a pure heart can truly discern the difference.
Rumi compares the heart to a mirror that reflects the Divine light - it needs continuous polishing to keep it from getting rusted and darkened.
“Love wants its tale revealed to everyone,
But your heart’s mirror won’t reflect this sun.
Don’t you know why you can’t perceive it here?
Your heart’s mirror is rusty - scrape it clear!”
- Rumi, MI: 34

This is not an easy task. Most of the debris that clouds the mirror starts as invisible tiny specks, unnoticeable and undetectable. They build up with every tiny choice we make in life. With time, as they accumulate, they opacify the face of the mirror - and like the boiling frog - the process falls out of our conscious awareness until it is too late.
Polishing our hearts is a lifelong endeavor. It is the greatest struggle and the ultimate task of a human being.

Body Whispers

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The power of choices resides in our fifth chakra. When out of balance, we experience the Whispers in various forms: Swallowing problems, throat problems, voice issues, tonsillitis, Thyroid issues, shoulder and neck pain…
When your throat chakra is out of balance, you are unable or unwilling to trust - trust yourself and your choices, trust your judgment, trust God, trust the flow of life and the experiences you are facing, trust the chaos and ambiguity, trust people and relationships.
When we feel disempowered and oppressed, it is almost impossible for us to empower others.
If you are experiencing problems aligning with/trusting/ accepting the Divine will in your life, you will be unable to speak your truth and stand up for yourself.
The fifth chakra holds the delicate balance between finding our voice and aligning this voice to the Divine will; the balance between fighting and banging our head against the wall trying to change what we cannot change on one side, and experiencing helplessness, resignation, and powerlessness on the other. It is finding our integrity and using our voice and our tiny daily choices in the service of others and the benefit of the world.

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[Art, Stories & Body Whispers®] On Life Meaning

16/1/2024

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Let’s resume  our series: Art, Stories & Body Whispers® .
If you are new to our tribe, to follow along, you will need a blank-page journal or a sketch book and some basic colours or collage materials. Every month we will explore a theme using art exercise and stories, sometimes I will suggest songs, poetry, or traditional wisdom that will add some insight to the theme. Finally, we’ll discuss common Body whispers® related to the theme we are exploring.
This month story is about life meaning, about what we are looking for and where are we looking for it.
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Golconda mine was a diamond mine in Hyderabad, India. It was operating until the 1800s. Its diamonds are of such an impeccable quality that they are considered among history's most celebrated diamonds in the world. The crown jewels of England and Russia’s royalty and some of the largest and rarest diamonds on earth to this day came from that mine.

There is an old folk tale in the region about the discovery of the mine. Here is how the story goes:1 There once lived not far from the River Indus in India, a wealthy farmer named Ali Hafed.   Ali owned a very large farm, he had orchards, vineyards, and green pastures. The farm was protected by surrounding mountains and supplied by its own stream of fresh water coming straight from the river. One day an old monk, a wise man of the East, passed by Ali’s house. He sat down by the fire and told Ali about those precious rocks that grow deep in the centre of the earth… “They call them diamonds,” the monk said. “A diamond is a congealed drop of sunlight.” He added. The old monk told Ali that a small diamond, the size of a chickpea, could purchase a whole town, and a mine of diamonds could place a man and his children upon thrones.
Ali Hafed heard the story and went to his bed that night a poor man. “I want a mine of diamonds,” this was all what he could think of.
First thing in the morning, Ali sought out the monk. “Would you tell me where I can find diamonds?”
“Diamonds! What do you want diamonds for?” asked the monk surprisingly.
“Well, I want to be rich.”
“Oh. Ok.  Then, go on and find them. That is all you have to do; look around and find them, and then you have them.”
“But I don't know where to find them.”
“Go and find a river that runs through white sands between high mountains. In those white sands you will find your diamond,” answered the monk.
“I don't know where to find such river.”
“There are plenty. They are everywhere. All you have to do is look and you will find them, and then you’ll have them.”
“I will go,” Said Ali, more determined than ever.
And, off he went. He sold his farm, collected his money, left his family behind, and away he travelled in search of diamonds. He walked through the Mountains of India, the sands of the Middle East and the river streams of Europe, and at last when he ran out of money and he was homeless, starving and in rags, he stood on the shores of the Mediterranean in Barcelona, Spain, and a great tidal wave engulfed him never to be seen again.

Meanwhile, the man who purchased Ali’s farm was one day leading his camel to drink, and in the shallow water of the river bank, the man noticed a shining light coming from the white sands of the stream. He pulled out a strange looking rock that had a shining eye reflecting the light of the sun. He loved how it looked, so he took it home and placed it in the centre of his room reflecting the light of the fire place. A few days later our old monk passed by the farm and stopped to greet the new owner, and as soon as he entered the room he saw that flash of shining light, and he rushed up to it, and shouted: “What a beautiful diamond! Has Ali Hafed returned?”
“Oh no, Ali Hafed has not returned, and that is not a diamond. That is just a stone I found right here buried in the sands.”
“But, I tell you, that is a diamond!” Affirmed the monk.
Then together they rushed out into the pasture and stirred up the white sands of the river that come flowing down from between the high mountains, and lo & behold! more and more diamonds. And, here it was … the diamond-mine of Golconda, the most marvellous diamond-mine in the history of humankind. It was there… It has always been there at the river that runs through white sands, between high mountains, it was in Ali’s backyard all along, but he failed to notice.

The story is part of a lore that has passed from generation to generation in the area. People have told it as a reminder that the diamond we are looking for is there and has always been there, in our own backyard. The diamond is inside us, if we fail to notice its shining light, this means we are looking in the wrong places.

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1 Acres of Diamonds by Russell H. Conwell



Art

Open a blank page spread of your journal. Brainstorm a list of all your fears, worries, cravings, pains, longings, dreams, hopes… just add them up on the page, as randomly or as neat as you want. Use colours, shapes, words, scribbles, images… whatever you fancy. At least 50! Big or small things.. everything:
  • Body: pains, aches, stiffness, wrinkles, scars, cellulites, hormones…
  • Mind: negative thinkings, critics’ voices, self-doubts, dreams, aspirations, goals, achievements, to-do lists…
  • Heart: aches, joys, grief, anger, cravings, pleasures, passions, hopes…
  • Soul: yearnings, lament, prayers…

STOP HERE ... Do the exercise and then come back and read the rest of the instructions.

Now, I want you to imagine that the blank clean white spread you started with is your “Diamond” - it is now buried under this pile of “stuff” - good and bad “stuff.”

Remember, there is no right or wrong way of doing it. Your art could be realistic or abstract… don’t worry about the drawing skills… don’t worry about colouring inside the lines, perspective or proportions… just freely capture the feelings you are experiencing.
Take your time and keep adding any words, colours or shapes and images that come to mind. do you feel like adding, erasing, tidying up, covering it up, turning the page and starting all over again... just be aware of your feelings. There is no right or wrong way of doing it.

When you are ready, take a good look at your art:
  • How does your page look now? 
  • How deeply buried is your diamond?
  • Are you satisfied with the way your art piece has turned out? why or why not?
  • Was the exercise scary or exciting? 
  • Were there any revelations, insights?
  • Where do you need to start digging?

Traditional Wisdom of the month

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“Don’t ask your Jesus for a body’s health.
Don’t ask your Moses for vile Pharaoh’s wealth.
From your heart keep thought of provisions out,
Stay at the king’s court - never be without!
The body is the spirit’s tent, its shell,
Or like an ark for Noah - heed this well.
That you might lose your tent why should you fear
When to the royal court you are so dear?” - Rumi


“Good, evil, joy & grief are transient states
Eventually they die and leave to God all their estate.”

“In just two months though garden grass may grow,
To bloom, a red rose needs a year or so.”
- Rumi



Reflection & Journaling prompts

  • Is there an area (or areas) of your life that needs simplification?
  • Is there an area that needs your attention?
  • What do you need to add or remove from your life​

Body Whispers

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As you know by now, your Body whispers are unique to you… You just need to sit and listen.

Liver problems
Your liver is the main detoxifying organ in the body – literally and figuratively. When it starts to whisper, it is an attempt to warn you that your load of “toxins” is exceeding your capacity to handle. In Greek Mythology, the liver is the seat of contentment. In traditional medicine, liver stores the anger.
Liver problems signal some underlying resentment about life circumstances and about your own reactions/interactions with those circumstances. At their root, liver problems are signalling some form of power struggle… They are warning you from the stored anger arising from feeling powerless, helpless, and worthless; from being unable or unwilling to handle the overloading and overwhelming demands and responsibilities that are causing your discontent and that might lead you to the point of hopelessness and despair.

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[Art, Stories & Body Whispers®] What Needs to Die?

14/11/2023

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As you know by now, to follow along, you will need a blank-page journal or sketch book and some basic colours or collage materials. Every month we will explore a theme using art exercise and stories, sometimes I will suggest songs, poetry, or traditional wisdom that will add some insight to the theme. Finally, we’ll discuss common Body whispers® related to the theme we are exploring.

This month is about what needs to die.
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Once upon a time in a far away land, there lived a wealthy merchant who had a beautiful parrot. The parrot has been in the family for a long time. “she is my most precious possession,” bragged the merchant. The parrot was so colorful, smart and intelligent, she greeted him every morning and sang her nice melody at night. She gave answers to many of his tough questions, guided his way when he got confused, offered him comfort in his sadness, and celebrated with him when in joy.
The merchant built a magnificent golden cage for his parrot. He brought her delicious food from all over the world, filled her cage with exotic flowers and trees to please her eyes.

Years passed and our parrot grew weary… she seemed to be getting weaker and weaker every day. World famous physicians and talented healers could not find a cure. The parrot was gradually withering away… there was nothing that could be done! The helpless merchant was grieving.

Every year, the merchant travelled for his trade… And, this year, he planned a journey to India. He asked his beloved parrot, what can I get you from there? The parrot answered, “I want you to tell my story the parrots of India, tell them about my sad affair and ask them to remember me.”
The merchant took off and as promised, he ventured to meet the parrots of India in the dense woods and delivered his parrot’s message.
One parrot heard the sad story – and shook so hard that she immediately dropped on the ground like a breathless corpse. The merchant was set aback: “I killed the poor bird,” he lamented.

When the merchant completed his trade, returned home with presents for everyone, except his beloved parrot. The parrot immediately noticed his master’s distress. “What’s troubling you, my lord?” she asked. The merchant related what happened in the woods, “one of the birds felt so sad for your state, she grieved so hard, it broke her heart;  she shuddered and fell as soon as she heard your story.”
Our parrot listened attentively and immediately dropped in her cage. The merchant leapt and cried... “What have I done! My sweet sweet bird!” He lamented.
The merchant carefully took his parrot out of the cage and placed her on the ground to prepare for the burial. But, as soon as he let go, the dead bird opened her eyes and flew up on the highest branch out of reach.
The parrot stood on the branch for a moment, “The bird of India acted dead to show me the way,” the parrot explained. “My gorgeous look and sweet-singing voice kept me entrapped. I needed to let go. It was only by letting go that I gained my freedom.”
The merchant finally realized that he had to lose his bird, to truly gain it… He was happy for his parrot and exclaimed:
“God be with you each and every day
Bless you for showing me a worthier way!”


In traditional storytelling, every character of the story symbolizes part of us – as Rumi puts it, you are not just the Moses in Moses’s story, you are also the Pharaoh.

So, in our story today, the main character, our parrot, is the part of our soul that longs for freedom – for eternal peaceful beautiful life. The part that longs to be alive, to flee the cage and fly up high, no attachments, no fear, no restraints, no anxiety.
The cage is the material world with all its attractions and distractions… with all our desires, attachments and cravings…
The merchant is the part of us that chooses to play it safe, to keep the status quo. It is the selfish ego that is trying to “protect us” every time our soul yearns for freedom.
The parrots of India are the wise higher self, the Divine Breath in everyone of us, the part that knows the way because it has been there before - in time eternal. The part that had once tasted true freedom, and had been bewildered by the beauty of the Beloved. It is our inner guidance, the little voice inside us that whispers pointing to the right direction, to the right choices – yet most often this voice is muffled and lost in the wilderness of our noisy daily life.
To find the freedom, our parrot needed to let go of her fear… She needed to allow the old self to die only to be resurrected in a more magnificent way.
It is scary… Letting some part of us die is terrifying – yet at some point in our journey, we have no choice…  It is only when you fully trust and fully let go of your hold and your grasp that you will be truly free.
Carl Jung teaches that “only boldness can deliver us from fear and if the risk is not taken, the meaning of life is violated.”

The parrot is resurrected anew… but life out there is not a smooth ride. In the cage, at least she had food and water, she was protected from predators and hunters… But now, she is on her own. She crossed the threshold and embarked on her journey, on the Road of Trials. No one knows what will happen to her next, yet, for her, it is totally worth it.
This journey is life – without the challenges, it is worth naught – what purpose or meaning would we have entrapped in a golden cage?
Off she goes… once out of the cage, the parrot cannot look back. If she does, the merchant will never give her another chance. The cage will be tighter, he might throw her in a dungeon, a dark, scary dungeon to make sure she would never dare to break free again.
Once you cross the threshold, don’t look back!

Art

Open up a new page spread of your art journal and draw a bird cage. Take your time. It is not a prison. It is a beautiful - or not- bird cage.
Finish your cage before moving on to the next step of the exercise.


Now, pick another color - Where would you place your soul on the page?
Is she inside or outside of the cage?
Does the cage have a door?
Is the door open or closed?
Who holds the key?
Is there even a key?


Remember, there is no right or wrong way of doing it. Your art could be realistic or abstract… don’t worry about the drawing skills… don’t worry about coloring inside the lines, perspective or proportions… just freely capture the feelings you are experiencing.
Take your time and then jot down any words that come to mind.

Look at your art:
  • What color did you use? What texture? What shapes?
  • How strong, sharp, heavy or light are those colors, lines and shapes?
  • How big is the cage? Did it fill the whole page? The whole spread?
  • How vast is your soul? What color? Shape? Texture?
  • Does your drawing scare you? How and why?
  • Is it comforting? How and why?

Traditional Wisdom of the month

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​“Look round our world; behold the chain of love
Combining all below and all above.
See dying vegetables life sustain,
See life dissolving vegetate again:
All forms that perish other forms supply
-by turns we catch the vital breath, and die,
Like bubbles on the sea of matter borne,
They rise, they break, and to that sea return.
Nothing is foreign: parts relate to whole;
One all-extending, all preserving soul.
All served, all serving: nothing stands alone;
The chain holds on, and where it ends, unknown.”
- Alexander Pope (An Essay on Man, 1732)


Reflection & Journaling prompts:

Is your soul holding on to some part of your life that needs to die? What fear? What cravings? What worldly attachments are holding you soul back?
Cravings are not necessarily material things. Some times we crave attention, we crave to be noticed, valued, loved… sometimes we crave acknowledgement, we yearn for someone to notice our pain or recognize our value.
Likewise, our fears can masquerade into various forms. They can show up as frantic over-working, over-doing, a futile attempt to keep everything under control, organized, stable… we are afraid to slow down, to breathe… our world might fall apart if we but flinch. Sometimes, we are fighting against the natural flow of our life… we keep holding on to dreams that are not even ours… blindfolded, we follow the crowd wherever they might lead us…

Pause for a while and ponder…
What is holding your soul back?
What do you need to let go of?
What part of you needs to die to keep your soul alive?

Reflect on your life… on your journey and intentions…
What needs to die in your life so it can be resurrected anew, in a healthier form and shape?
What must die to allow room for new growth and regeneration, for a new healthy life?




Body Whispers

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Every cell of our body houses hundred of thousands of those tiny organelles, the Mitochondria. They are most famous for their role in energy production. But, mitochondria are essential for another very important function: regulating cellular death!

When a cell becomes damaged or show signs of malfunction, the mitochondria of that cell initiate the cell self-destruction – a process known as apoptosis.

It is estimated that every day, our body loses about 10 billion cells through apoptosis. It is a natural smooth process. Yet, it is extremely complex– our mitochondria do not take lightly a process that triggers a death alarm and initiates cellular disintegration. But once the cell is damaged beyond repair, it is time to die. And, the dying cells never go to waste, our body is a very efficient recycler. The cells are broken down in an orderly manner and the neighbouring cells safely assimilate the fragments and components for re-use.

So, what happens if the mitochondria fail to initiate apoptosis?

Cancer!

If a damaged cell is allowed to live, it will replicate and spread resulting in a malignant growth.
Our mitochondria are ever watchful, vigilantly scanning their environment: What needs to die?
If they fail to do so, cancer sets in.

And, as you know by now, our inner environment is but a reflection of our outer reality. The problem is not the cells malfunctioning or even getting out of control. Mistakes, pitfalls, bad choices and wrong moves happen all the time. The problem occurs when we fail to notice. When we do not allow to die what needs to die. Both in life and on the cellular level, there comes the time that begs the question: What needs to die?

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[Art, Story & Body Whispers®]… On Staying Sane in a World Gone Insane

23/10/2023

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This month story is a traditional Egyptian tale passed down from generation to generation. It is attributed to Dhu-l-nun Al-Misry (d. 859 C.E.)

Once upon a time, a wise saint warned his people that on a certain day, in a certain time, all the waters in the world will change… The water left for humankind will drive anyone who drinks it insane. He called upon his people to build barrels, reservoirs and basins to collect and store their pure fresh water, as when this day comes, the world’s waters will no longer be safe to drink.

Only one man took this advice to heart. He collected water and stored it up high on the mountain tops. Moons and moons passed – no one knows exactly how many… All we know is that on the designated day, as the mystic had warned, the rivers stopped flowing, the land parched and the wells dried up.  The man who had listened saw it all happening. He rushed to his sanctuary and lived on the water he saved.

Not long after, the land was restored and the canals flew again but this time it was different. The man descended from the mountain to find his people thinking and talking in a funny way, a different way… yet, no one found it funny or different, no one remembered the saint’s warning… no one noticed that the water tasted different. In fact, everyone thought this man is mad. No one knew what he was talking about. Some people reacted in sympathy, others were aggressive, but they all agreed that he was the crazy one.


Our man retreated again to his sanctuary and drank from his safe water. But, he felt lonely, so lonely and alienated. Eventually, he found no way out but to come down and drink from their waters… He soon forgot about his water stores and became one of the crowds. His people embraced him in delight. They celebrated and rejoiced as the poor mad man miraculously regained his sanity!
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I honestly don’t know what to make of this story especially during the heart-breaking times we live in. I am sure there is a deeper wisdom here that I am not able to fully grasp yet. But, what I know for sure is that it is not about giving up or helplessness. It is rather about deep faith and certainty (or lack thereof). Letting Go is different from giving up.

This poor man has given up - Rather, he needed to let go… He needed to let go of trying to change what he cannot change. He needed to know the difference and find his unique role and contribution without losing himself or his people.

Charles Upton writes “When you find yourself in a state of fear or grief over the evil of the world, the degeneration of humanity, and the ruin of the earth […] Remember: The World is Perfect.” “Stop trying to maintain the world in existence by the power of your ego. Let it go.” “In other words, Upton Adds, the Messiah is already here. He has always been here. In each spiritual moment, the world comes fresh from the hand of the Creator. As God is perfect, so His expression is perfect – if, that is, we can witness it, with all its wonders and horrors, as His immediate manifestation.”
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Art

The art exercise this month is simple: Draw your anger!

Express your anger on paper – use anything you want: paint, colors, shapes, images, symbols, scribbles, words… you can even tear down the pages or trash them… take your time, don’t rush and don’t force it. Don’t suppress it either – put it all there on the pages.

Now, look at your art:
  • What color did you choose? What shape?
  • What symbols peak through?
  • How does expressing the anger on paper make you feel?
  • Repeat the exercise every day for a week – notice how the anger evolves, transmutes, increases or decreases…
Our anger is just a signpost, a warning sign… We can’t help but feeling it at times. It is not good or bad in itself. what we choose to do with it, though, can be good or ugly.

​Here are three pages of my journal over the past week... It changed... transmuted... Yet still, it is a work in progress...

Body Whispers

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Heartache!

The heat of anger arises from the heart. Its fire can consume our hearts if we allow it. It can burn us and our loved ones alive.
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Pause. Breathe. Listen to your heart. What does it want to tell you?

Traditional Wisdom of the Month

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This traditional Sufi poetry by Hallaj (d. 922 C.E.) had kept me company during the past two weeks:

وَاللَه ما طَلَعَت شَمسٌ وَلا غَرُبَت
إِلّا وَحُبُّكَ مَقرونٌ بِأَنفاسي
وَلا جَلستُ إِلى قَومٍ أُحَدِّثُهُم
إِلّا وَأَنتَ حَديثي بَينَ جُلّاسي
وَلا ذَكَرتُكَ مَحزوناً وَلا فَرِحاً
إِلّا وَأَنت بِقَلبي بَينَ وِسواسي
وَلا هَمَمتُ بِشُربِ الماءِ مِن عَطَشٍ
إِلّا رَأَيتُ خَيالاً مِنكَ في الكَاسِ
وَلَو قَدَرتُ عَلى الإِتيانِ جِئتُكُم
سَعياً عَلى الوَجهِ أَو مَشياً عَلى الرَاسِ
وَيا فَتى الحَيِّ إِن غَنّيتَ لي طَرَباً
فَغَنّنّي وأسِفاً مِن قَلبِكَ القاسي
مالي وَلَلناسِ كَم يَلحونَني سَفَهاً
ديني لِنَفسي وَدينُ الناسِ لِلناسِ





It can be loosely translated as:

By God, the sun never rises nor sets
Without me breathing in Your love;
And, I never turn to talk to anyone
Without You being my words among people;
And, I never mention You in sadness or in joy
Without You being in my heart, among my every whisper;
And, I never reached out, thirsty, for a sip of water
Without seeing an apparition from You in my cup.
If only I am able to reach You, I would come
Crawling on my face or walking on my head.
Oh, you boy who sings to me in ecstasy
Sing of my sorrows from your cruel heart.
What is it about me that people accuse me of insanity
I have my faith and they have theirs.


You can hear it beautifully chanted here:
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[Art, Stories & Body Whispers®] On Staying Challenged

6/9/2023

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This month story builds on last month’s Daring to Live theme. It’s about staying challenged.

Story

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The Japanese love sushi, but the waters around the island do not hold many fish. So, companies built large fishing boats to go farther out to sea. But, the farther out they went, the longer it took to bring in the fish home. The catch was not fresh anymore, and the customers’ culinary palate detected the difference. To solve this problem, fishing companies installed freezers on their boats. They would catch the fish and freeze them at sea. Freezers allowed the boats to go even farther and stay longer.
However, the Japanese could easily taste the difference between fresh and frozen. And, sushi can’t be made with frozen fish. So, fishing companies installed fish tanks on their vessels, into which they stuffed the live catch. After a little thrashing around, the fish stopped moving in the tanks; they were dull and sluggish but stayed alive. Unfortunately, this solution did not work either. The Japanese could still taste the difference - because the fish had not moved freely for days, they lost their fresh-fish taste.
Finally, they found the solution in a simple saying: 'A person thrives, oddly enough, only in the presence of a challenging environment.' To keep the fish lively and fresh, fishing companies added a small shark to each tank. Sure enough, the shark ate a few fish, but the rest arrived in a vibrant energetic state. The fish were challenged!

Art

Draw a big rectangle on your page - this “tank” is your life - In it, jot down all the autopilot routine roles you have to play on a daily basis: driving to work, office stuff, replying to emails, cleaning, cooking, studying, taking care of the kids, spouse, watching TV…

Now, add a shark to your tank!

Remember, there is no right or wrong way of doing it. Your art could be realistic or abstract… don’t worry about the drawing skills… don’t worry about colouring inside the lines, perspective or proportions… just freely capture the feelings you are experiencing.
Take your time and keep adding any words that come to mind.

When you are ready, take a good look at your art:
  • What color is your shark? What shape, texture?
  • Is it big or small?
  • Does it look docile or vicious?
  • Did it take all the space or was it a tiny representation on the side?
  • Which "Fish" will the shark swallow first?
  • What is the shark trying to push you to do?
  • How scary is this challenge?
  • What blocks/ stands in the way?

Traditional Wisdom of the Month

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“Dance, when you’re broken open.
Dance, if you’ve torn the bandage off.
Dance in the the middle of the fighting.
Dance in your blood.
Dance, once you’re perfectly free.”
- Rumi, from Coleman Barks The Essential Rumi






Reflection & Journaling prompts:
  • Is there an area (or areas) of your life that is/are starting to stagnate, to feel stale, areas that  are slowly decaying, that are gradually becoming lifeless, sluggish and dull?
  • What “shark” do you need to add to your life to keep things flowing?

Body Whispers

As you know by now, your Body whispers are unique to you… You need to sit and listen.

Generally speaking, the main energy centre that starts to whisper when we are leading a meaningless, dull, boring, and lifeless existence, is our sixth chakra.
Our sixth chakra energy feeds our senses, our central nervous system and the pituitary gland.
​The pituitary gland is the master commander of our endocrine system directly governing the hormonal functions of the first chakra (the adrenals), the second (the sexual organs), and the fifth (the thyroid) along with many other critical roles.
When your days feel dull and lifeless, the whispers start. They might manifest as stress, anxiety, or immunity malfunction (first chakra-related disorders); PMS and reproductive tract disorders (second chakra-related issues); metabolic dysfunctions and thyroid hyper or hypo activity (fifth chakra-related disorders); or eye, ear, and nerve issues (sixth chakra-related disorders). Listen!
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[Art, Stories & Body Whispers®] Soul Yearning

1/8/2023

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This month, we’ll resume  our series: Art, Stories & Body Whispers® .

As you know by now, to follow along, you will need a blank-page journal or sketch book and some basic colours or collage materials. Every month we will explore a theme using art exercise and stories, sometimes I will suggest songs, poetry,  or traditional wisdom that will add some insight to the theme. Finally, we’ll discuss common Body whispers® related to the theme we are exploring.

This month is about soul yearning and daring to live.

Story

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Years ago, my cousins and I used to rent a small boat from the shores of the Alexandrian sea. The fisherman would warn us, “you can row far and wide, but never cross the boughaz (the inlet)” – this was a small opening in the wall of the breakwater rocks that the city had instilled years ago to protect its shores from the raging sea…. The Alexandrian coastlines were thus tamed and peaceful. Still, its sea was vast and wide… you can safely row for hours and hours and stop your boat to fish and cast your net… You’re safe and protected as long as you don’t cross the inlet - the boughaz!
Yet, crossing we did… EVERY SINGLE TIME… We couldn’t help it… Those bunch of rebellious kids who wanted to experiment with the unknown. As soon as we got the hang of our tiny boat, we row and row away from the shore and out of sight right through the boughaz… it’s a whole new world out there, a magical feeling. In just a few seconds, you are thrown into the wild and the Mediterranean shows its true face, its untamed and scary side. It is much more alive than the boring smooth waters of the safe coastlines. Once we've tried it, we could never enjoy the tamed sea again… we had to cross the inlet every time we’re out in the sea… and, it was our little secret. The beauty, serenity, and the peacefulness of the vast blue waters that meant the world to everyone, was but a boring illusion that kept us away from the true taste of the mysterious world – a world with no boundaries – the true Mediterranean – the True Sea, we yearned for.

Decades later, I am wondering where this adventurous rebellious girl went… I can’t remember how many times I surfed art supplies stores buying art supplies and stocking them in my already busy drawers and tool boxes. When I decide to finally paint, I open my tool box, gaze at my endless materials and think: “No… these are too precious, I’ll save them for a more serious project.” And, guess what! This ‘more serious project’ never comes. My paints, glue cans, and mediums wait in their safe storage until they dry up and flake, until they turn from precious to useless waiting for the ‘perfect moment’ that never came, and may never come.
Of course “art supplies” here are but a metaphor for everything in life… every new adventure, opportunity, dream, passion… that we stock in our safe drawers waiting of the perfect time. Kind of like the story of the poor fisherman throwing away the big fishes he catches as he only has a tiny frying pan at home. The big fishes just won’t fit!!!

The most important lesson I learned from my art classes at the faculty of Fine Art back home is to be bold, to take risks. You are faced with a blank canvas, you could paint it any way you wish. If you choose dull, monotonous colors just to ‘be on the safe side’, you will end up with a boring lifeless painting. “What if I mess up? What if I used the wrong colors?” I asked. “Just add a fresh new layer,” my professor calmly answered. Accidental mistakes and bad choices in art, like in life, are revealing strokes. They teach us and force us out of our comfort zone, “see them not as mistakes, rather as opportunities,” my professor taught.

I’m wondering whether the beauty, safety, and comfort of our modern life became but a boring illusion… a veil that denies our soul its yearning of crossing the boughaz, of reaching out for its True Sea?


Art

You might have already guessed our art project for today… Open up a new page spread in your art journal and just pour a blob of random paint - any random color… better yet a color that you don’t really care for.
Then, close the journal while the paint is still wet and open it up again.
Now that you created a mess, use more colours, paint, scribbles, collage, whatever you fancy and turn this blob of random mess into a monster. Yes, a monster!

Remember, there is no right or wrong way of doing it. Your art could be realistic or abstract… don’t worry about the drawing skills… don’t worry about colouring inside the lines, perspective or proportions… just freely capture the feelings you are experiencing.
Take your time and then jot down any words that come to mind.

Now, look at your art:
  • What colour did you use? What texture? What shapes?
  • How strong, sharp, heavy or light are the colours, lines and shapes?
  • Who or what is your monster? How strong, sharp, heavy or light is it?
  • What is he/she trying to push you to do? Or prevent you from doing?
  • How scary is your monster? How big is it?
  • What triggers it?
  • What calms it down?
  • How does it block/ stand in your way?
  • If you want to add yourself to the page, where would you be?

Here is a song, you might enjoy while painting your monster:
Tim McGraw - Live Like You Were Dying

Traditional Wisdom of the month

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Rumi gives the simile:

“When you load your cargo on a ship, you do
that with full trust God keeps it safe for you.
You don’t know whether you might drown
Or, you’ll be saved from ever sinking down.
If you say, ‘till I know which one I’ll be
I won’t go on the ship or in the sea,
I need to know if I’ll be drowned
Reveal to me if I’ll arrive safe and sound?
I won’t embark on a journey with all the unknown
The truth to me has to be clearly shown.’
No trade will be accomplished, then, by you
Because the answer is hidden far from view.
The frightened merchant with a fragile nature
Finds neither loss nor profit in his venture.”

Reflection & Journaling prompts:
  • Name your fears

Body Whispers

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There are so many ways your body can whisper to you that your soul is yearning for more out of life… You need to sit and listen. Everyone is unique.
Yet, usually, the parts of the body that get affected when we deny our life passions and yearnings, when we let our fears prevent us from pursuing what we are called to pursue, are the sexual organs and the thyroid.


  • Sex organs & female hormonal imbalance - things like PMS, hot flashes, uterine fibroids, PCOS, and ovarian cysts... are trying to tell you that you are missing joy, excitement & creativity in your life.
  • Throat & thyroid whispers want to tell you that you need to be heard; you need to reclaim your authentic voice. This area is also related to issues with surrender and learning to align our will to the Divine will without compromising or giving up on your dream nor ignoring your voice.

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[Art, Stories & Body Whispers®] On Fear, Letting Go & Trust.

11/7/2023

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This month, I am starting a new series I have been thinking about for a long time now, combining my three favourite subjects: Art, Stories & Body Whispers® .
It will be sweet and brief as I know we’re all busy.

To follow along, you will need a blank-page journal or sketch book and some basic colours or collage materials. Every month we will explore a theme. You will start with an art exercise. Then, you’ll move to a story that will usually be some symbolic take on the theme. Finally, some common Body whispers® related to the topic we’re exploring.

This month we are exploring Fear, Letting Go & Trust.

Art

Open a new spread in your journal and using colours, images, collage materials, drawing, doodle, scribble… explore: What does fear look like for you?
There is no right or wrong answer nor right of wrong way of doing it. Your art could be realistic or abstract… don’t worry about the drawing skills… don’t worry about colouring inside the lines, perspective or proportions… just freely capture the feelings you are experiencing.
Take your time and then jot down any words that come to mind.

Now, look at your art:
  • What colour did you use? What texture? What shapes?
  • How strong, sharp, heavy or light are the colours, lines and shapes? How strong, sharp, heavy or light is your fear?
  • Is it contained or pervasive?
  • What triggers it?
  • What calms it down?
  • How does it block/ stand in your way?
  • If you want to add yourself to the page, where would you be?

Story: It is Written in the Sand

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​There is an old Sufi tale about a Stream that flowed freely for years. It is said that he began his journey from up there in the mountains far far away… He passed through hilltops and lowlands… He survived ditches and travelled plains … until one day, he reached the desert.

The Stream has been through a lot on his journey and was certain that he can pull through this one too. So, he tried and tried; and the more he tried to cross the desert, the faster he kept sinking into its Sands… the Stream’s waters were disappearing and the Stream was gradually fading away… it was scary!

The Stream knew that he was meant to cross the desert… but, he had no idea how… And, he began to wonder why… Why was he facing such a hard task?  Why can’t he just continue flowing as he used to? This is when the Stream heard a gentle subtle voice that seems to come from afar … the voice whispered: “the Wind crosses the desert, so can you.”
“But, the Wind can fly,” replied the Stream, “it can flow over those harsh arid Sands that keep sucking the life out of me.”
“Maybe you’re pushing too hard,” whispered the voice,
“maybe you need to let go… To trust.”
“But, what would I be if I let go?” Wondered the Stream. 
“If you just allow yourself to be absorbed in the Wind, it can happily carry you to wherever you are meant to be.”
The Stream fiercely objected, letting go meant losing control… it meant facing the unknown… it meant embracing the change that is taking place … a scary ambiguous change.
Yet, what will he be if he does not let go? Continuing to push against the harshness of the Sands is futile. He will soon be absorbed away or turned into a swampland. 

It was a hard choice to make… After all, the Stream only knew one way of flowing… one way of knowing. All his life, he has been flowing in his old familiar way… he has been knowing in his old knowable way... he was free, or so, he thought… he had never relinquished his control before… “Will I remain the same Stream that I am today?”

“Your essence will never change… whether you become a new stream, a lake, or a river… whether you choose to sink in the Sands or turn into swamp or marsh... you are and will always remain you… your secret… your most essential you.”

“How do I know that this is true?”

“You need to trust.”

The Stream was more confused than ever… So many questions needed to be asked. But, the answer did not come from the faraway whispers this time, the answer came from deep within. The Stream vaguely remembered once upon a time far faraway when he was held by the caring Wind… it felt safe… it felt true… or, did it? 

And, the Stream allowed his waters to be absorbed in the Wind… and, the Wind gently carried the waters to the mountaintops far faraway. The Stream was watching and learning... He was flowing like he had never flown before… He was knowing like he had never known before...
The Stream still did not know where the Wind is carrying him… And, he still did not know what or how he’ll end up being… But, it felt true… it felt real… it felt safe. The Stream somehow knew that he still was and will always remain the Stream that he had always been and he also knew that he no longer was and will never remain the Stream he had ever been.

And, on his journey up to the mountaintops, he heard the familiar gentle voice whisper again, “We have always known, because we see it happen all the time."
And, this is why it is said that the journey of your Stream of Life is written in the Sands.



*The story is from Tales of the Dervishes by Idris Shah

Reflection & Journaling Prompts:
  • What do you need to let go of?
  • What is your relationship with trust?
  • Do you trust yourself and your judgements?
  • Do you trust God? What does trusting Him means to you?
“If tomorrow morning by stroke of magic every dazed and benighted soul woke up with the power to take the first step toward pursuing his or her dreams, every shrink in the directory would be out of business.” Steven Pressfield
What “first step” you need to take now towards pursuing your dream?

Body Whispers

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Knees
Knees problems hide an underlying sense of fear, worry and insecurity. You are missing the feeling of belonging, integration, and grounding ... the feeling of being part of a secure, safe family, community or society.
Knees pain signals some reluctance or unwillingness to move forward or change direction especially when you feel unsupported by your family or community, you feel that you are flowing against the current and striving to change what cannot/would not be changed.
Knees also start to ‘whisper’ when there are some major changes going on in your life. It could be some material change or changes in beliefs and thinking pattern… when your beliefs about what is true and valuable in life are challenged by your reality, community and environment… When your identity and self-worth are at stake or questioned.
If your knees are causing you problems, you need to start asking yourself where in my life do I need to surrender more? What do I need to let go of? Do I need to be more flexible and understanding? Am I being stubborn, hindering life flow with ease and spontaneity?
What fears am I storing: is it fear of loss, fear of failure, fear of change, fear of being not enough, fear of criticism, fear of breaking hearts or crushing dreams?
Knees problems could also signal some form of conflict with the ego, a prideful unwillingness to give up or give in. Pride doesn’t always mean arrogance, sometimes pride denotes the inability to accept our human limitation as we keep fighting, struggling and banging our head against a wall in a futile battle.




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Kidneys:
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When your kidneys start to whisper, your body is trying to tell you that you are harbouring too much fears, especially fears related to safety, financial security and worry about tomorrow.
People with kidney problems are experiencing a growing feeling of vulnerability, they feel lonely and unsupported. They fear being left alone in the world. They also harbour lots of negative emotions that they are unable or unwilling to release: worry, resentment, criticism, self doubt, self-blame and frustrations. They fear that they won’t be good enough or that they might fail.

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The 7 I’s: A Journey of Healing & Transformation

20/6/2023

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Our life is a story…

We make sense of our journey and our sufferings through stories…
Our pain stems from our disconnection from those stories… When we disconnect, our life and body sends us warnings, Body Whispers®, to tell us that something needs to change in our life. If we don’t listen, the Whispers get louder and louder until they become screams that we can no longer ignore.
Our healing lies in listening to our Body Whispers®, in reclaiming our story and re-telling it in our own authentic voice, in restoring connections and integrating our mind, body, heart & soul, finding our life meaning and purpose, restoring our health, and living in joy.

The 7 I's help you through this journey. It is inspired by Joseph Campbell’s Hero’s Journey.


  • The first stage: Integration: It seemed like an ordinary life until you get a Call for Adventure. This call might come in the form of major life changes or challenges, or it might stem from your body sending you warnings, Body Whispers®, to tell you that something needs to change in our life - the warnings could be in the form of anxiety, depression, heartaches, body aches, or simple feeling of uneasiness… Now, it's chaos & ambiguity -  You stop to connect & integrate all the bits & pieces of your life and build the foundation of your primary. needs for safety, security, support, and belonging: who am I? Where do I stand? Who stands with me? The integration stage is the foundation that establishes the structure and framework needed for you to embark on your journey.
When this stage is not in order, our Body Whispers® to us through the adrenal glands. We feel anxious, unable to cope with stress, our blood pressure is out of balance, our bones ache, we experience constant fatigue, depression and/or our immune system falls out of synch.



  • The second stage: Initiation: Change is hard. Yet, as you acknowledge the kaleidoscope of your emotions (all the anger, fear, grief, frustration, guilt...), you Accept the Call & are initiated on your healing journey. In the midst of the chaos, you start looking for the light that could reignite your love, passion & joy.
When out of balance, our body sends us warnings through disturbance in sexual hormones and reproductive functions, creativity block and addictive behaviors.


  • The third stage: Implementation: It is time to make the decision - to Cross the Threshold & become an active agent in your healing journey. You own your narrative and assume responsibility for your life & your health.  You acquire knowledge & gather tools. You choose your allies & support system, you re-visit your beliefs about yourself and others, dig for “sparkling events” that point you to your strengths, potentials, and talents; and integrate those stories into your emerging identity. 
When this stage is not in order, our body sends us warnings through imbalanced blood sugar levels, digestive disorders, liver problems, different food cravings, addictive behaviors and some forms of cancers.


  • The fourth stage: Intimacy: Healing is not easy nor is it a straight forward journey. There is  no magic wand nor a secret pill. It is a Road of Trials that you have to tread. And, as you are advancing on the path, you are building your heart-based strength, courage & resilience. You are anchoring your trust in the Divine & intimately connecting with a sacred, transcendent reality that gives meaning to your life.
When out of balance, our body sends its warnings mainly through our heart, vascular system and immune functions. Lung problems and breast cancer are also common whispers here or rather screams.


  • The fifth stage: Integrity: This stage is an expected pause in any life-changing journey. Digging into your stories and exploring strengths and weaknesses force you to come face to face with many tests, allies, and enemies that might force you to retreat in the Belly of the Whale, into your Innermost Cave.  It is time for slowing down, for reflection & re-evaluation. Here, you achieve Transformation. You find your genuine true voice and trust & surrender your will to the Divine will. 
When out of balance, our body sends its warnings through disturbance in our thyroid gland and throat & upper respiratory tract problems.


  • The sixth stage: Insight: You are seeing through your ordeal and emerging with a richer narrative & a valuable contribution. You now must take the Road Back for Resurrection to occur. You reintegrate into re-engage in life with more wisdom & meaning. The insight you gain at this stage of your journey enables you to see new ways and embrace other alternatives, choices, and possibilities.
The sixth chakra, known as the third eye, is about finding meaning and wisdom in our challenges and humbly making peace with our human nature that limits our ability to find all the answers we seek. It sends its whispers through the pituitary gland, the ‘maestro’ of the endocrine system. This is why when it is thrown out of order, we experience load of associated whispers ranging from stress, worries, and anxiety to autoimmune disorders, immunity & reproductive system malfunctions, and metabolic disorders.


  • The seventh stage: Intention: You are strengthening your love and sincere connection with the Divine; reclaiming your true identity & sense of agency. You are earning the Freedom to Live: Freedom as our Divine gift to live our life in harmony with His law and order. You are now clearly seeing & actualizing the valuable purpose & meaning of your life. You are back "Home", yet you are seeing it in new eyes.
The crown begins its whispers through insomnia, headaches, dizziness, migraine, low energy, and depression. With an out-of-balance crown, we lose our sense of purpose, meaning, motivation, and interest. On a deeper level, it is related to brain and nervous system disorders and fatal degenerative illnesses.



We go through the journey all the time, with every new challenge, change or transformation in our life. We are always at one stage or another on the journey.​

Take the time to locate where you are at this stage of your life and thus envision how to proceed further.
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Sweet "Motherland"... Let me Catch my Breath!

16/1/2023

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When I was a young kid, my friends and I played our little version of hide & seek, it was called Ummah - which can be loosely translated as “Motherland.” In our version of the game, all players had to run, hide, and seek to catch one another - it was all chaotic and random, everybody is running, everybody is seeking, everybody is on high alert. Then, if you become really tired , you are allowed to go to this one designated area, the Motherland, where you can be safe for a tiny moment to catch your breath. No one is allowed to touch you there. But, you can’t stay in the Motherland more than just one minute, after which you have to re-join the crazy frantic rushing and running.

This is exactly how most of the weeks feel like - a running and catching game until the weekend, the Motherland, when we can catch a quick breath. And, before we know it, we have to re-join the grind… running, rushing, catching, and seeking.

It is this Duck again… running and rushing anxious and frantic…

Sigh.
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